When it comes to coffee, Kim Anami admits she isn’t a caffeine queen but she says she prefers star f–ks over Starbucks any day of the week. “I always say, I don’t do coffee, I do orgasms because you will harvest all of this high-potent energy from your sex life,” the sex coach admits.
While 74% of Americans guzzle coffee daily, Anami strongly recommends skipping the coffee klatch and putting the focus on your crotch. Regarding sex, she says a regime of “meditate, masturbate, create” is the trifecta for fantasy-level fornication.
“If you’re having sex in the way that I teach people to have sex, people will feel not like they need to pass out or have a nap after sex,” Anami says. “They will feel like they can go to the gym, they can run a marathon, that they’re full of energy after their sexual encounter.”
Anami likens her vagina to a power bank that recharges every time she inserts her jade yoni egg and when she self-pleasures or has sex with a partner. She says all the inspiration one needs to power through the day is already in their genitals. Anami amply proves her point with her internationally famous vaginal weightlifting escapades. She posts elegantly shot portraits of herself hoisting fruits, furniture, and more by inserting a pure jade yoni egg — that has a string attached to it — inside. The string is then bound to an object of her choice. She claims using the jade yoni egg has endless potential to improve orgasms, battle urinary incontinence, increase circulation to produce more natural lubrication, and other benefits. The fearless host of the podcast “Orgasmic Enlightenment” says the jade egg has been a game changer for those she’s worked with.
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“Apart from the bliss and ecstasy, my favorite thing about sex is how it changes my life,” Kim Anami shares. “You tap into the procreative power of the universe and use it to build your worlds. And yourself.”
Meditation is a way to bring your body into the present moment, according to Anami. She says it not only bumps up energy but it builds stamina, makes you more aware during sex, and can lead to healing parts of the mind, body, and spirit that need attention. Masturbation is a loving form of meditation for the body, she adds, and she’s used it herself to feel “unstuck.” Putting creative projects into gear is another way to spark sexual energy, she reveals.
If you’re feeling stagnant, she posits a lack of sex and a need for more challenges to bring out your gifts could be the reason.
She explains how she uses that rush from masturbation to stimulate creation. After one 45-minute self-satisfaction session, Anami says she did yoga and had to keep stopping to write down all the new ideas that were flooding her brain.
“That’s the big ‘secret’ to manifestation — mainlining that energy straight from your genitals,” she insists. “You do this through slowing down and breathing. The longer you self-pleasure or have sex for, the more energy you cultivate. You do this in tandem with deep breathing.”
Through her salons, Kim Anami goes into meticulous detail with clients on how they can catapult their sex lives. The G-Spot Ecstasy, Sexual Mastery for Men, Vaginal Kung Fu, and Coming Together Couples salons are just a few of the spicy offerings on Anami’s menu. In addition, she has a line of glamorous couture sex toys made from Italian Murano glass along with natural yoni oils to keep things flowing when the sexual intensity begins to heat up.
She views her salons as the sex education nobody received but should have. Salon takers virtually learn with a weekly delivery of useful content and Q&A opportunities with the sex queen herself. “Everything is archived for you and you have lifetime access to all of the material,” she says.
At the end of each day, Kim Anami is grateful for the work she’s doing because she not only practices what she preaches, but genuinely connects with those she’s advising.
“I love the creative element. I always say that sexual energy is creative energy. And as much as I look at myself as a teacher and a healer, which I also love and find very gratifying, I look at myself as an artist and a creator,” Anami says. “And so I’m always looking for new and fun, playful, provocative ways to share about sex and intimacy that make it easier for people to open up to these ideas.”
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The sexpert further suggests that when approaching sex, sometimes a reboot is in order and that means pushing the reset button on the road to orgasm. For many, Anami says it can sadly be a race to the finish line and this is due to a number of reasons. There could be a time limit if it’s the morning and you’re running late for work or maybe you find yourself feeling turned on in an awkward place.
“Most people have been orgasming the same way since they started ‘doing sex,’” Anami says. “For some people — especially men — they have conditioned themselves to jerk off as fast as possible so that no one busts in on their teenage boy selves. Or they hurry because they are with a woman who has been convinced she’s ‘just not that sexual’ and is having sex just to get it over with.”
She says some women think it’s only about their clit and rub it into painful oblivion, generating a lackluster climax and then rush back to the daily to-do list. Anami urges there’s a better way and it goes back to her “meditate, masturbate, create” formula.
“Your sexual energy is your superpower,” Anami stresses. “Whether you are single or coupled, you can tap into it. And, whether you are single or coupled, you can use ‘meditate, masturbate, create.’ The power that lies at your own fingertips.”